Sore throat remedies for kids

 

bumps on tongueMany times parents bring their children with sore throats to our office to “check if it’s strep.” Some are disappointed to find out that their child does NOT have strep. Moms and Dads lament, “But what can I do for him if he can’t have an antibiotic? At least strep is treatable.”

Take heart. Strep or no strep, there are many ways to soothe your child’s sore throat:

  • Give  pain medication such as acetaminophen (Brand name Tylenol) or ibuprofen (brand names Advil or Motrin).  Do not withhold  pain medicine before you bring her in to see her pediatrician. Too many times we hear “We wanted you to see how much pain she is in.” No need for this! Pediatricians are all in favor of treating pain as quickly and effectively as possible. Pain medicine will not interfere with physical exam findings nor will it interfere with strep test results.
  • Give lots to drink. Some kids prefer very cold beverages, others like warm tea or milk. Avoid citrus juices since they sometimes sting sore throats.  Frozen Slurpies on the other hand feel great on sore throats. Tell your child that the first three sips of a drink may hurt, but then the liquid will start to soothe the throat. Watch for signs of dehydration including dry lips and mouth, no tears on crying, urination less than every 6 hours and  lethargy.
  • Provide soft foods if your child is hungry. For example, noodles feel better than a hamburger on a sore throat. And ice-cream or sherbet therapy is effective as well.
  • Try honey (if your child is older than one year) – one to two teaspoons three times a day. Not only can it soothe a sore throat but also it might quiet the cough that often accompanies a sore throat virus. Give it alone or mix it into milk or tea.
  • Kids older than three years who don‘t choke easily can suck on lozenges containing pectin or menthol for relief. Warning: kids sucking on lozenges may dupe themselves into thinking they are hydrating themselves. They still need to drink and stay hydrated.
  • Salt water gargles are an age-old remedy.  Mix 1 teaspoon of salt in 6 ounces of warm water and have your kid gargle three times a day.
  • Magic mouthwash: For those older than 2 years of age, mix 1/2 teaspoon of liquid diphenhydramine (brand name Benadryl 12.5mg/5ml) with 1/2 teaspoon of Maalox Advanced Regular Strength Liquid (ingredients: aluminum hydroxide, magnesium hydroxide 200 mg, and simethicone) and give a couple time a day to coat the back fo the throat prior to meals. Do not use the Maalox formulation which contains bismuth subsalicylate. Bismuth subsalicylate is an aspirin derivative and aspirin is linked to Reye’s syndrome.
  • For kids three years and older, try throat sprays containing phenol (brand name Baker’s P&S and Chloraseptic® Spray for Kids). Use as directed.

 

Strep throat does not cause cough, runny nose, ulcers in the throat, or laryngitis. If your child has these other symptoms in addition to her sore throat, you can be fairly sure that she does NOT have strep. For a better understanding of strep throat see our posts: “Strep throat Part 1: what is it, who gets it and why do we care about it” and “Strep throat Part 2: diagnosis, treatment, and when to worry.”

Any sore throat that prevents swallowing or prevents your child from opening his mouth fully, pain that is not alleviated with the above measures, fever of 101F or higher for more than 3-4 days, or a new rash all merit a prompt visit to your child’s doctor for further evaluation. Please see our prior post on how to tell if you need to call your child’s doctor for illness.

 

Julie Kardos, MD and Naline Lai, MD

©2012 Two Peds in a Pod®




Two Peds goes undercover at your local pharmacy

Photo by Lexi Logan

Picture the Mission Impossible theme song in your head… da da da DUM DUM da da da DUM DUM dadada…dadada…dadada…DA DA! Keep this background music playing as you read.

Recently, Two Peds in a Pod® went undercover as two unsuspecting moms surveying the scene on the shelves of a local chain pharmacy, seeking to uncover what medicines, ointments, and therapies avail themselves to the unsuspecting consumer. Today we break open the case.

All medication labels have an “active ingredient” list. This list contains the actual medicine that acts on your child’s body to hide symptoms or cure a condition.  Read this list carefully so that you know what you are actually giving your child. For example, Flu-Be-Gone claims it “cures the aches and cough of flu and helps your child sleep better.” In order to know just what is actually in Flu-Be-Gone, you need to read the active ingredients. Included might be acetaminophen (brand name Tylenol), a fever reducer and pain reliever, and diphenhydramine (brand name Benadryl), allergy medicine that has the common side effect of causing drowsiness and has some mild anti-cough properties. Notice neither active ingredient actually kills the flu germ. Additionally, you may already have these two medications in your medicine cabinet, or you might have already given your child diphenhydramine recently and giving Flu-Be-Gone would overdose your child.

Also note, diphenhydramine is everywhere. If you see the word “sleep” or “PM” in the name of a product, you will usually find diphenhydramine in the active ingredient list.

Now, let’s hone in on your choices for the anti-itch therapy, hydrocortisone. When your child’s health care provider advises treating an itchy bug bite, poison ivy, or allergic rash with hydrocortisone, make sure that the ACTIVE INGREDIENT in the product is “hydrocortisone 1%.” Hydrocortisone comes as a cream, ointment, spray, or stick (looks like a glue stick) and can have aloe, menthol, or other ingredients thrown in as well. Don’t bother with anything less than maximum strength. Regular strength is 0.5% and is generally ineffective.  Also, keep in mind that while ointment is absorbed a bit better, it is more greasy/messy than cream.

Don’t be fooled into thinking products with the same brand name contain similar active ingredients. Also, do not depend on your doctor to necessarily know the difference between the all the formulations. We noticed that the same brand name pain reliever, such as Midol, can have different active ingredients depending on which one you choose. Midol Teen contains acetaminophen, Midol liquid gels contains ibuprofen, and Midol PM contains acetaminophen and diphenhydramine.

Let’s talk bellyache. Did you know that kids should not take adult pepto bismol because it has a form of aspirin in it? Aspirin may cause Reye’s syndrome, a fatal liver disorder. However, we did see a product called Children’s Pepto Bismol and guess what the active ingredient is? It is calcium carbonate, which is the SAME active ingredient as in Tums, and is safe to give kids. However, watch your wallet: the children’s pepto bismol that we found cost $6.00 for a box of 24 tablets. The TUMS that we found cost $4.50 for a bottle of 150 tablets of the same stuff, just in slightly higher dose. Check with your child’s doctor but in most cases, the kids can take the adult dose.

Also, be aware that cold and cough medicine have not been shown to treat colds successfully or even to actually relieve symptoms in most kids. In fact these medicines have potential for harmful side effects, accidental overdose, or accidental ingestion and are just not worth giving your children. However, we found tons of cold and cough medicines marketed for children. Here are the three most commonly used active ingredients:

  • If you see “suppressant” you will likely find “dextromethoraphan” in the active ingredient list.
  • If you see “expectorant” you will likely find “guaifenesin” in the active ingredient list.
  • If you see “decongestant” you will likely find “phenylephrine” in the active ingredient list.

Many products combine two or all three of the above. We ask, even if these ingredients did work well in kids and were not potentially dangerous, what is the POINT of combining a cough suppressant with an expectorant? Can you really have it both ways? (Remember, that Mission Impossible theme is still playing in the background.)

A few other tidbits. “Dramamine,” used for motion sickness, gets broken down in the body to diphenhydramine, that allergy medicine that we already talked about. So look at cost differences when choosing a motion sickness medicine. Both have the same side effect: sleepiness.

Many cough drops contain corn syrup and sugar. This is the same stuff lollipops are made of, so just call a candy a candy and keep your child’s throat wet with the cheaper choice, if you choose to do so.

Finally, we found one “natural children’s cough medicine” which claimed that it is superior because of its “all natural ingredients.” The first active ingredient listed? Belladonna. Sure it’s natural because it comes from a plant. So does marijuana. Just because it’s “natural” doesn’t mean it’s safe. Belladonna can cause delirium, hallucinations, and death and in fact has been used in high doses as a poison! Leave the cough medicine on the store shelf, and read our post about other ways to soothe a cough and cold symptoms.

Bottom line:  remember always to check the “active ingredient” list when buying any over-the-counter medication for your children.

As we were wrapping up our mission, one of the pharmacy employees came over to us, raised an eyebrow at our clipboard, and asked, “Can I help you ladies with anything?” We were tempted to answer “YES, can you help us take notes?”  but we just smiled and said “No, we’re fine, thanks. Just checking out what’s available.”

So now, we will don our stethoscopes and come out of hiding, go back into our offices and onto our website. Thanks for tuning in to this episode of Two Peds in a Pod®…. Da da da, DUM DUM da da da, DUM DUM dadada…dadada…dadada…DA DA!!!

Julie Kardos, MD and Naline Lai, MD
©2012 Two Peds in a Pod®

As we head into this year’s cold and flu season, we re-release this post in response to recent questions  about “the best cold medicine for my kid.” Originally posted May 27, 2011




DaDu and Happy Thanksgiving

 

turkeys

 

“DaDu.”

That’s how my oldest used to say “Thank you” when he was about two years old. Now that he is thirteen I find myself still reminding him to say “thank you” when he goes to a friend’s house or to a birthday party or when a friend’s parent drives him to school.

From Two Peds in a Pod®:  We are thankful for our readers, our facebook friends, and our subscribers for continuing to send us ideas and for telling parents around the world about our down-home source of “sound pediatric advice for parents on the go”. We’ll keep writing as long as you all keep reading. 

Today, may you enjoy cramming in folding chairs to your dining room table, the sleepy post Thanksgiving feast lull, and the sight of heaps of children piled onto a tiny couch.

Dadu and Happy Thanksgiving, 

Julie Kardos, MD and Naline Lai, MD
©2012 Two Peds in a Pod®




Arsenic and your food

 

arsenic riceA decade ago, we wondered if arsenic was in pressurized wood-containing playground equipment . Then we worried about the toxin turning up in apple juice . Now recent reports say arsenic is in the US rice supply .

Uh oh.

As an Asian-American I often cook rice for my family, so I emailed my toxicologist sister when the reports of arsenic in rice first surfaced.

“It’s okay,” my sister emailed back, “Just wash/rinse the rice several times. It’s not like we’re drinking water in Bangladesh.”

“That’s it?” I thought to myself and decided to call her. After all, I figured she is one of a small number of board certified medical toxicologists and an author of a paper on arsenic.

“What is arsenic anyway?” I asked when I got her on the line.

“It’s a naturally occurring element,” she said. To be more precise, it’s number 33 on the periodic table. Like other elements such as iron, lead or calcium, arsenic is found in the earth’s crust.

Here’s what  I learned about arsenic:

 

Why did my sister reference Bangladesh in her email? In the 1970’s drinking water
was in short supply in Bangladesh. Contamination of water by sewage and
monsoons lead to diarreheal illness and high infant mortality rates.
Hundreds of thousands of wells were drilled in order by well meaning aid
organizations. Unfortunately, unbeknownst to the drillers, Bangladesh
sits over a pocket of arsenic rich soil. As a result, some estimate one
in five of the drilled wells is contaminated with arsenic.

 

How does arsenic affect humans?

Organic arsenic is not toxic and is found in seafood. The inorganic form of arsenic, however, interferes with AdenosineTri- Phosphate (ATP), which is a building block for cellular energy. When a large amount is ingested at one time, the body goes haywire, causing many vital organs in the body to shut down.

Chronic effects of low amounts of poisoning are more subtle. Exposures to low levels over time are linked to some cancers such as bladder and skin cancer.

How does arsenic enter the body?

By eating or drinking of tainted substances. Rarely, arsenic is inhaled. Absorption of arsenic will not occur via touch.

Can I tell if something is tainted?

No. Arsenic is colorless and tasteless when dissolved in water. In fact, arsenic’s nick name is “Inheritance Powder” because it was used to speed up royal inheritances in medieval and renaissance Europe.

Should I run out and have my kids tested?

No. Arsenic does not accumulate in the body. It moves in and out quickly. A spot test is not meaningful. Think of eating trace amounts of arsenic like eating the charred part of a piece of steak.

 

To lower arsenic levels or any other potential contaminant on food, wash, wash, wash:

-Wash your hands before you prepare food.

– Wash your child’s hands before she eats.

Wash your produce (meat does not need to be washed).

Also, serve a variety of foods to minimize the chances your family will be exposed to a large quantity of any potential toxin found in one food source.

What about rice cereal? Is it safe for my baby?

The jury is still out. For now, limit the amount of rice cereal you give to your baby. For details and the latest updates www.aap.org

 

Tonight my family will be eating ribs and rice…just hold the arsenic.

Naline Lai, MD with Julie Kardos, MD

With thanks to Melisa Lai Becker, MD, director of medical toxicology of the Cambridge Health Alliance

©2012 Two Peds in a Pod®

 




A glimpse into the world of childhood mental illness

The cut of mental illness can be  sharper than any surgeon’s knife. What happens when a child’s emotional turmoil escalates beyond a family’s control?  In the  newly released book Suicide by Security Blanket, and Other Stories from the Child Psychiatry Emergency Service: What Happens to Children with Acute Mental Illness, Drs. Laura Prager and Abigail Donovan bring us behind the scenes of the Massachusetts General Hospital psychiatric emergency room. Although the discussion can be somewhat technical, the real-life stories are poignant and are fascinating not only for healthcare professionals, but for anyone interested in child mental health.

In this excerpt, a dialogue occurs between Dr. E, a child psychiatrist, and Tommy, a depressed fourth grader who has just tried to strangle himself:

“I hate myself. I want to die.” Tommy’s voice lacked any inflection.

“Why?”

“I’m bad. The world is bad. No one likes me. No one wants me as a friend.”

“No one?”

“I’m a loser. No one wants to be friends with a loser. They all hate me.”

“Why are you a loser?”

“I’m fat. I can’t do anything right. I got in to trouble at school.”

“What happened at school?”

“Nothing.”

“Nothing?”

“I wrote bad stuff.”

“Bad stuff?”

“This one kid farts all the time and I wrote ‘fart’ on his notebook.”

“Then what happened?”

“The teacher made me apologize.”

“That’s it?”

“My parents get mad when I do stuff like that.”

“Were they mad this time?”

“I don’t know. I always get in trouble. No one in my family likes me, either. They won’t care if I’m dead.”

…Tommy’s voice got just a bit louder. “After school, I was really mad. I went down to the playroom and I tried to strangle myself. I didn’t have any rope, so I used my scarf. I also thought about going upstairs and trying to jump out a window.”

Did you hurt yourself when you tied the scarf around your neck?”

“No, I couldn’t get it that tight.”

“Did you think that you could kill yourself that way?”

“If I pulled hard enough.”

“So what happened then?”

“My mother came downstairs and found me.”

“I guess it was lucky that your mother was keeping an eye on you. Do you know why she came down?”

“I don’t know. She took the scarf and called the doctor. Here’s the scarf.” Tommy pushed the sheet away from him. He was wearing maroon hospital PJ’s that were slightly too big for him. Around his neck hung a dirty grey-colored knit scarf that looked as if it might once have been another color, perhaps light blue. It had remnants of fringe hanging from each end. The scarf hung loosely, and the ends tumbled into his lap. As he spoke, Tommy absentmindedly started stroking the tattered fringe on one end.

Dr. E tried to regroup. How could the nurses have let this kid sit in a bay with a scarf around his neck when apparently he had just tried to strangle himself with that very scarf?

“Is this the same scarf?”

“Yes. I just told you that. I had it with me.”

“Is this scarf your security blanket? Do you sleep with it?” Dr. E hoped she didn’t sound quite as incredulous as she felt.

“Well, I don’t take it to school, usually. It usually stays on my bed during the day.” He paused before adding, “I had it with me today. It was in my backpack. It used to be light blue. I’ve had it for as long as I can remember. I think my father gave it to my mother but she didn’t like it.”

“You tried to strangle yourself with the scarf you have held on to forever?”

Tommy was silent.

Dr. E fell silent, too.


Reprinted with permission. Courtesy of Praeger Publishers/ABC-Clio, 2012. Available on Amazon.com

Naline Lai, MD and Julie Kardos, MD
©2012 Two Peds in a Pod®




Beth: a story of life and hope

 

At this time of the Jewish High Holy Days, Dr. Kardos offers us a glimpse into lessons learned as a doctor in training. This is a true story she wrote years after meeting Beth and until now, had only shared with a few close friends.

Tonight starts Yom Kippur and my two youngest children are asleep in their beds. As my oldest sits in the rocker next to my desk reading the last book in the Lord of the Rings series, my husband relaxes playing a computer adventure game. The Jewish High Holy Days are a time for reflection about the past year. But my mind goes back to a Yom Kippur Eve when I was working as a resident in the Pediatric Intensive Care Unit (PICU) as part of my pediatric training.

Residents work through most holidays, even ones they consider important. This night, I wished I had off, but I consoled myself with knowing that I would be off on Thanksgiving. Luckily I was partnered with Amy, the lead physician in the PICU.

The sickest patient that night was twelve-year-old Beth. She had leukemia and had just started chemotherapy. Because her immune system was weak, Beth was very ill with a bacterial infection in her blood. Despite powerful antibiotics, the infection raised havoc in her body. She developed such difficulty breathing that a tube from a mechanical ventilator was placed down her throat to force air into her lungs. Even the comfort of sleep escaped her. Beth was afraid of what was happening to her body. She refused to accept medicine that could help her sleep because she was so afraid that she would never wake up.

That night, despite her incredibly ill state, she got her period. Usually when a girl’s body is stressed, the body preserves all blood and the periods stop. But hers came, and because her blood cells were so abnormal from a toxic combination of infection, chemotherapy, and leukemia, she began bleeding to death. We transfused her with bag after bag of blood to keep her alive.

In the middle of the night, Beth’s blood pressure suddenly plummeted so we added even more medication. Because my mentor Amy was not certain that Beth would survive the night, we called her family at the hotel near the hospital where they were staying and told them come to Beth’s side. And through it all, Beth refused to sleep. Her eyes always opened in terror whenever we approached her bed. Her face was gray. Her chest rose and fell to the rhythm of the mechanical ventilator, and you could smell the fear all around her.

I stood with Amy just outside Beth’s room as Amy reviewed a checklist for Beth’s care. It went something like: “Ok, we just called blood bank for more blood; we called her family; we called the lab; we called the pharmacy. We are currently attending to all of her problems, we now just have to wait for her body to respond.” She paused,” But you know what?”

“What?” I asked her.

“We need to address her spiritual needs as well. Do we know what religion her family is? They may want a clergy member with them.”

I was startled. In the midst of all the tubes and wires of technology, Amy remembered to summon the human factor in medicine. We looked in her medical chart under “religious preference” and there it was: Jewish.

“Amy,” I said, “of all nights. Tonight is Yom Kippur…the holiest night of the Jewish year.”

I knew that the hospital had a Rabbi “on call” just like they had priests, nuns, ministers, and other spiritual leaders. But that night I was sure that every rabbi in Philadelphia would be at synagogue for Kol Nidre, the declaration chanted at the beginning of the Yom Kippur evening service. We were unlikely to track down a Rabbi.

Despite this, we asked her mother if they wanted us to call a Rabbi for them. She shook her head no. I remember feeling relieved, then guilty that I felt relieved. Amy left to check on another patient. Beth’s mom, dad, and older sister stood together watching Beth. Her sister’s hand lay on her mother’s arm. Her mother’s eyes darted from me to Beth to the mechanical ventilator next to the bed. Beth’s eyes were closed and it was difficult to know if she even knew we were there.

Her family walked out into the hall to talk. Beth at that moment opened her eyes and started tapping on the bed with her foot to get my attention. She couldn’t talk because of the tube down her throat and her hands were taped down with IVs. Yet she reached out with one hand as best she could.

I walked close to her bed so she could touch me and I asked, what is it, Beth?

Her lips formed the words around the breathing tube very deliberately, her body tensing. “Am I going to die?”

All in a split second I am thinking to myself: How do I know/it could very well happen/how can I lie to her/how can I tell her the truth of what I fear could very well happen/how am I going to answer this child?

What I answered was, “Not tonight, Beth.”

She relaxed into her pillow but kept her eyes on mine. I waited to see if she would say anything else, but the effort to ask that one question had exhausted her. I stood, holding her hand, until her family came back into the room. Her eyes followed them to her bed and I left so they could be together.

Beth did survive the night and in fact survived a month in the PICU. She became well enough to be transferred to a regular hospital floor. By this time I was working in a different part of the hospital, but one of the oncologists pointed her out to me.

I don’t know what happened to her in the long term.

So now I tell my oldest child it’s time for him to stop reading and go to sleep, and I walk him to his room to say goodnight. My husband and I decide what time we’ll attend Yom Kippur services tomorrow. Part of me feels joined with Jews everywhere who will also be spending the next day reflecting, praying and celebrating a new year. But mostly, like every year at this time, I remember the sounds and the smells and the fear in the PICU where sickness doesn’t care who your God is or what your intentions are. I remember Amy caring enough to think about a dying child’s family religion, and always, I remember Beth.

Originally posted in fall, 2010

Julie Kardos, MD
© 2012 Two Peds in a Pod ®

 

 




How much sleep do kids need? School time ABC’s and zzzzzzs


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Thanks to the folks at CBTV local access cable and CBCares, who believe in empowering not only parents close at home but around the world, and reformatted this segment of Parent Connections for the internet.

Julie Kardos, MD and Naline Lai, MD

©2012 Two Peds in a Pod®




ABC and zzzz’s on Parent Connections Cable TV

CBCaresDo you live in the Central Bucks School District in Pennsylvania? We just got back from filming a segment on sleep and breakfast hints on Parent Connections- running through September.

CBTV community cable
Comcast 28/Verizon 40
7:30 pm on Tuesday, Thursday and Sundays


Julie Kardos, MD and Naline Lai, MD
©2012 Two Peds in a Pod®






It’s a nailbiter…paronychia infections

finger infection

Ouch! This kid’s index finger has a finger nail infection called a paronychia. Often seen in nail biters and cuticle pickers, this infection occurs in the skin around fingernails. Although most kids are not dexterous enough to bite their toenails, infection can also occur in toes. Bacteria which normally live on skin (Staphylococcus or Streptococcus) find an opportunity to enter the body through openings in broken skin.

The area at the periphery of the nail bed is red, swollen, and painful. At times pus drains from under the nail bed.

Caught early, warm, soapy soaks several times a day may be enough to soften the tense skin and encourage germ-fighting cells to migrate to the infection. After soaking, apply topical antibiotic, such as Bacitracin, to the area.  Often the infection improves after 2-3 days of diligent soaking.

Sometimes the infection persists and oral antibiotics are needed to treat the bacteria. In this photo, the redness of the child’s paronychia is spreading beyond the area immediately next to her nail. Besides increased redness, other worrisome signs of worsening infection include red streaks up the affected digit (a sign that the germs are trying to make it up to the heart),  increasing pain, or fever. Your child’s pediatrician will make the call after examining your child.

Although I do not keep formal track, I do seem to see more of these infections at the start of the school year when kids at their desks begin to bite or pick their nails and cuticles. To prevent infection, remind your kids to wash their hands. If you have a biter/picker, have her substitute a different habit such as picking at a hair scrunchie or Silly Bandz. A more expensive and time consuming option, which Dr. Lai has seen work—offer a fancy manicure.  Kids rarely want to ruin beautifully painted nails by chewing on them.

 

Julie Kardos, MD and Naline Lai, MD
©2012 Two Peds in a Pod®

 




Hellos and good-byes: school 2012


In the office it’s raining school forms. At this time of year, I see many of my patients embarking on their next stage of schooling. Kids I remember starting kindergarten are off to high school. Babies are starting daycare and  teens are starting college. For all the parents who have a child entering a new school, whether it’s preschool or college, this letter is for you:






My Child,


As we sit, the night before kindergarten, your toes peeking out from under the comforter, I notice that your toes are not so little anymore.


Tomorrow those toes will step up onto to the bus and carry you away from me. Another step towards independence. Another step to a place where I can protect you less. But I do notice that those toes have feet and legs which are getting stronger. You’re not as wobbly as you used to be. Each time you take a step you seem to go farther and farther.


I trust that you will remember what I’ve taught you. Look both ways before you cross the street, chose friends who are nice to you, and whatever happens don’t eat yellow snow. I also trust that there are other eyes and hearts who will watch and guide you.


But that won’t stop me from worrying about each step you take.


Won’t stop me from holding my breath­.


Just like when you first started to walk, I’ll always worry when you falter.


I smile because I know you’ll hop up onto the bus tomorrow, proud as punch, laughing and disappearing in a sea of waving hands. I just hope that at some point, those independent feet will proudly walk back and stand beside me.


Maybe it will be when you first gaze into your newborn’s eyes, or maybe it will be when your child climbs onto the bus.


Until then,


I hold my breath each time you take a step.


Love,
Mommy




No matter the stage, to smooth your child’s (and your) transition, remember the basic rules of daycare drop-off:



  • Always convey to your child that the transition is a positive experience. You give your child cues on how to act in any situation. Better to convey optimism than anxiety.
  • Take your child and place her into the arms of a loving adult- do not leave her alone in the middle of a room.
  • Do not linger. Prolonging any tears, only prolongs tears. The faster you leave, the faster happiness will start.
  • It’s ok to go back and spy on them to reassure yourself that they have stopped crying- just don’t let them see you.
For more back-to-school related posts, please be sure to read
How can I motivate my child in school- creating the resilient learner
When children should stay home from school for medical reasons (or listen to our podcast on this subject)
Packing your child’s school lunch: beware of junk food disguised as healthy food
Avoid back strain: what to look for in a school backpack
Wake up, sleepyhead, it’s time for school – how to shift your child’s sleep into a pattern more compatible with school hours

Naline Lai, MD and Julie Kardos, MD

reformatted from original 8/17/09 post
©2012 Two Peds in a Pod®