How do I know if my kid is high or drunk?

green crossThe green crosses in the photo signify that the building is a medical marijuana dispensing site. As the TMZ tour bus director pointed out the crosses when my family was recently on vacation in Hollywood, I saw all the kids on the bus crane their heads to look at the building. As I watched the kids, I was reminded that it is summer time and summer brings late night parties for teens. For parents, it brings late nights of worry.   “I’d know if my kid was high or drunk,” you say to yourself. Or would you? Here are some signs you can use to tell:

Your tween or teen wanders in late on a Saturday night and acts like he is in slow motion. “I’m just tired,” he claims. Have him look you straight in the eye as you talk to him. Even if he is lying, the truth will be in his eyes. More specifically, it’s in the size of his pupils (the black part of his eyes). Too big (nearly covers the colored part of his eyes) or too little (like pinpoints) is a sign he is currently high.

 

Most intoxicants not only affect pupil size, but also affect skin (hot and flushed, or cold and clammy), heart rate, breathing rate, and temperature. Any unusual extreme means there’s something on board or the person is sick.

Unfortunately, with pot it’s more difficult to tell if a person is high because people often have different reactions, and pot does not affect pupil size. Most display the usual well-known side signs of acting mellow (a pothead) and having the munchies. Some experience paranoia. Almost everyone has bloodshot eyes shortly after smoking, although that can also be from any smoke irritation.  The most reliable way to detect if your kid has been around marijuana probably is to smell his clothing and hair for the distinctive scent of pot. 


How can you tell if your kid is drunk? Again, look at his eyes- if he is drunk you may see pupils dancing in small circles. The dancing eyes give the sensation of “dizziness” to drunk individuals.

Another note on alcohol: Parents, beware. Your kids may have more access to alcohol than you think. The type of alcohol in your beer, ethanol, is the same type of alcohol in your morning mouth wash and perhaps in your medicine cabinet. The difference is that mouthwash contains more alcohol than beer. Beer typically contains up to 5 percent ethanol, wine up to 14 percent ethanol, and liquors usually up to 40 percent ethanol. Compare this to Original Listerine with 27 percent ethanol and Nyquil Nighttime Cold/Cough with 25 percent ethanol. And you wonder why it helps you fall asleep?!

Pharming: We teach our children medicine is not candy, and yet Pharming—consuming prescription substances to get a high—is a big problem among teens. And it’s not just medical marijuana kids are using. Since 2003, according to the Centers for Disease Control, more overdose deaths have involved painkillers like Vicodin and Percocet than heroin and cocaine combined. Among teens, medications prescribed for Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD) are the most popularly pharmed drugs. Don’t unwittingly contribute to a pharming party where kids raid medicine cabinets, deposit pills into big bowls, and randomly ingest them.

Worried? Call your pediatrician. Two national useful resources:

Drugfree.org information on getting help and preventing drug and alcohol abuse by teens and young adults

DrugNet.net a comprehensive national drug and alcohol rehabilitation center and addiction treatment program resource guide

Naline Lai, MD with Julie Kardos, MD and toxicologist Melisa Lai Becker, MD
©2013 Two Peds in a Pod® based on original post of 4/23/12

 





Your burning questions answered:sunscreen and sunburns

sunburnHot!

Pictured is a kid with a second degree burn.  No, this burn wasn’t caused by hot water or by touching the stove, but by the sun. A sunburn is still a burn, even if it was caused by sunlight.

Treat sunburn the same as you would any burn:

  • Apply a cool compress or soak in cool water.
  • Do NOT break any blister that forms- the skin under the blister is clean and germ free. Once the blister breaks on its own, prevent infection by carefully trimming away the dead skin (this is not painful because dead skin has no working nerves) and clean with mild soap and water 2 times per day.
  • You can apply antibiotic ointment to the raw skin twice daily for a week or two.
  • Signs of infection include increased pain, pus, and increased redness around the burn site.
  •  A September 2010 Annals of Emergency Medicine review article found no best method for dressing a burn. In general, try to minimize pain and prevent skin from sticking to dressings by applying generous amounts of antibiotic ointment. Look for non adherent dressings in the store (e.g. Telfa). The dressings look like big versions of the plastic covered pad in the middle of a Band aid®.
  • At first, the new skin may be lighter or darker than the surrounding skin. You will not know what the scar ultimately will look like for 6-12 months.
  • If the skin peels and becomes itchy after a few days, you can apply moisturizer and/or hydrocortisone cream to soothe the itch.
  • Treat the initial pain with oral pain reliever such as acetaminophen or ibuprofen.

Preventing sunburn is much easier, more effective, and less painful than treating sunburn.

What is SPF? Which one should be applied to children?

  • SPF stands for Sun Protection Factor. SPF gives you an idea of how long it may take you to burn. SPF of 15 means you will take 15 times longer to burn… if you would burn after one minute in the sun, that’s only 15 minutes of protection!
  • The American Academy of Pediatrics recommends applying a minimum of SPF 15 to children, while the American Academy of Dermatology recommends a minimum of SPF 30. Dr. Lai and I both apply sunscreen with SPF 30 to our own kids.
  • Apply all sunscreen liberally and often– at least every two hours. More important than the SPF is how often you reapply the sunscreen. All sunscreen will slide off of a sweaty, wet kid. Even if the label says “waterproof,” reapply after swimming.

Why does the bottle of sunscreen say to ask the doctor about applying sunscreen to babies under 6 months of age?

  • Sunscreens were not safety-tested in babies younger than 6 months of age, so the old advice was not to use sunscreen under this age. The latest American Academy of Pediatrics recommendation is that it is more prudent to avoid sunburn in this young age group than to worry about possible problems from sunscreen. While shade and clothing are the best defenses against sun damage, you can also use sunscreen to exposed body areas.
  • Some clothes are more effective than others in blocking out sunlight. Tighter weaves protect better than loose weaves. Cotton t-shirts are horrible for sun protection. Clothing uses a UPF rating. UPF measures the amount of UV light that reaches your skin. Higher numbers are better. For example, a rating of 100 means that 1/100, or one percent of UV rays reach your skin.
  • Hats help prevent burns as well.
  • Remember that babies burn more easily than older kids because their skin is thinner.

Which brand of sunscreen is best for babies and kids?

  • For babies and kids, no one brand of sun screen is better than another. Dr. Lai and I tell our patients to apply a “test patch” the size of a quarter to an arm or leg of your baby and wait a few hours. If no rash appears, then use the sunscreen on whatever body parts you can’t keep covered by clothing.

Remember when we used to call sun screen lotion “suntan lotion,” and tolerating red blistering shoulders was considered a small price to pay for a tan?  Live and learn.

 

Julie Kardos, MD with Naline Lai, MD
©2013 Two Peds in a Pod®




Doctor Dad Kris Taylor- A Father’s Day Story

 

Dr. Kardos’s dad is a pediatrician and during our long grueling hours of residency training he’d always serve as a source of encouragement. One of my favorite memories will always be the proud look in his eyes years later as he watched his daughter present at a physician conference.

 

Today we honor all Dr. Dads- dads or father figures- who help their children in times of crisis, illness, or injury.  Following is a tribute sent by one of our readers, Jennifer Taylor.

 

Happy Father’s Day!

 

Dr. Lai with Dr. Kardos
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Kris taylor father's dayWe are parents to three boys so needless to say, our house is always full of cuts, bruises or injuries of some sort. Band-Aids and “feel better” kisses are a regular part of our daily activity. And while my husband is a great “Doctor Dad” to all three boys, it is his every day involvement in my youngest son’s medical care that makes him a truly amazing father.

 

My son Luke is 4 years old. At the age of 6 months, he was diagnosed with an in-utero stroke. We were told at the time of his diagnosis that he may never talk or walk based on where the stroke hit. We’ve had several years of therapy, doctor’s appointments and testing. Throughout it all, Kris has been an amazing supporter- both for Luke and me.

 

While I tend to see the glass half-empty, Kris is perpetually positive. He always says “When Luke can” instead of “If”. He does research on therapies that might shake things up in Luke’s progress and is certainly a very active participator in all the therapies we receive. Kris stops in to chat with all the therapists so that they know he is Luke’s Dad. He is at every medical appointment: driving us to CHOP at 7:00 in the morning because he knows I hate driving on Route 76 by myself; heading up to Lehigh Valley Hospital for a speech consult; sitting by me while Luke has some sort of test done, holding my hand and telling me it will be okay. He is compassionate throughout it all and yet he still pushes Luke to succeed, knowing that our little boy can accomplish anything. When Luke gets frustrated, it is my husband who can calmly get him to try, try again. And they say laughter is the best medicine so my husband pulls out all the jokes and silly behavior he knows to get Luke to go “one more time.”

 

I really could go on and on about what a wonderful Dad my husband is but the true testament to him is sitting on the floor next to me singing and playing. Luke wouldn’t be where he is now without Kris.

 

And for that, I am eternally grateful.

 

Jennifer Taylor
©2013 Two Peds in a Pod®




Seeing is not always believing

summer pediatric hintsYesterday morning we were aghast to read medical misinformation in the print edition of our local newspaper. Aghast, because we were the pediatricians interviewed for the content of a summer time tips article.

Although a more accurate online version appeared, the print version contained several inaccuracies.

How can you tell if the medical article you are reading is accurate? 

  • Readers should always question what they read, and cross check to see if the information is consistent when compared with other credible sources. In this instance, we served as the “expert” sources of two articles for the same publication (print and online), yet the articles contain conflicting medical information. Cross reference our information with other experts in our field, such as the American Academy of Pediatrics, the Centers for Disease Control, and of course your own pediatrician.
  • Look twice if the interpretation of the information is coming from a secondary source. The information we give on Two Peds in a Pod is “straight from the horse’s mouth.” We edit and publish our own material. In our office, we talk to patients directly. Remember that “telephone” game you played at birthday parties? The message changes the more intervening people are involved in relaying information.
  • Medical information changes as new discoveries occur and more studies are conducted. There is a saying in medical school, “Even though half of what you learn in medical school will be inaccurate in ten years, learn it all, because you don’t know which half will be disproven.”  We keep up with evolving knowledge in pediatrics by reading journals, taking courses, reviewing cases with our colleagues, and retaking our medical boards on a scheduled rotation. Be sure you read information that is current as well as backed by credible sources.

Despite our dismay at the inaccuracies in the print version, you will find the online article helpful. In addition, please check our prior summertime posts about bee stings, Lyme disease, tick removal, poison ivy, splinter removal, and stay tuned for near-future articles about swimming and sunscreen.  

Whoever said, “You can’t believe everything you read on the internet,” was right… except perhaps this time.

Julie Kardos, MD and Naline Lai, MD
©2013 Two Peds in a Pod®




“What you forgot to tell the babysitter” and “When is my child old enough to babysit?”

 

babysitting cartoon

What you forgot to tell the babysitter

The first time my husband and I went out to dinner after our daughter was born, we walked out the door, got into the car, and sat in the driveway as my husband fretted over how our daughter was doing with the babysitter. “Did you see?” he said. “She looked sad when we left.” After a few minutes elapsed, he still had not started the car engine. Finally, to allay his fears, I told him to sneak back to the house and peek into the window. He came back amazed. “She’s fine,” he said with relief.

Finding someone to appropriately look after your child can be a difficult task. Even if you resist the urge to run back and check on your child when you leave the house, you may wonder as you pull away if there is anything you forgot to tell the babysitter. Chances are, you didn’t think of much beyond leaving your cell phone number and the name of your destination. Linda Miller, a nurse who taught a babysitting course for years for Child, Home, and Community (a United Way agency serving Bucks and Montgomery Country, Pennsylvania), shares with us the information she leaves her own babysitters:


Parents’ cell numbers

Kids’ names, ages and birthdays

House address (chances are, if your sitter lives down the street, she or he doesn’t know your house number)


The full name of the town you live in (is it Borough or Township?) In Nurse Miller’s case, there is a street of the same name in the neighboring township. Ever since the pizza delivery guy went to the wrong house one hungry night, her family is careful to be very clear as to where they live.

The nearest cross street. This important piece of information helps emergency responders confirm they are heading to the correct address. (It could also be helpful if your sitter is old enough to order pizza!)


Where you are going – name and address and phone number.


Phone number to call in an emergency: For most it is 911

Poison control center phone number : 1-800-222-1222

Height and weight of each child – for emergency medication administration

Allergies – to Foods and Medications


Since seconds count in an emergency, even if your sitter is a regular fixture in your home, it doesn’t hurt to point out the safety information each time, should he or she need it.

Remember to bring your sitter’s cell phone number with you so you can reach her, in case you cannot get through on your own house phone.

When is my child old enough to babysit?


Somehow the years passed quickly, and the tables have turned. My daughter herself is a babysitter. How will you know when your own child is old enough to babysit? First ask yourself whether he will be too scared to stay home without an adult. Then ask yourself if he can solve problems on his own. The age that kids start to babysit themselves or younger siblings varies. Ultimately parents need to judge their child’s maturity for themselves. Tweens can be mature enough to babysit themselves and a younger sibling for short period of time. In fact, the American Red Cross babysitting training course (which can be taken online) is offered to kids 11 years and older. Even if your child is not babysitting anyone else, but staying by himself at home, a course will give your child valuable self-care tips.

Outline specific Do’s and Don’ts for your child. Walk them through what to do if the doorbell rings or if the phone rings. What activities are they allowed to do? Are they allowed to eat? Cook? Can friends come over? What will they do in a power outage? What if someone gets injured or sick while you are out? Familiarize him with basic first aid.

Keep anything which is potentially harmful such as medications, guns, and alcohol inaccessible. Make sure you are comfortable with parental controls for computers and the television.

And of course…give them Nurse Miller’s list from above.

Naline Lai, MD with Julie Kardos, MD
©2013 Two Peds in a Pod®




Calling Dr. Dads

 father's dayIn honor of  Father’s Day, we would love to hear your anecdotes of any “Doctor Dad” moments your children have experienced.  Tell us about how your child’s dad or any father figure in your child’s life helped your child through a tough time, an illness, or an injury. Send us your anecdotes to twopedsinapod@gmail.com by June 4 and we will include the top stories in our Father’s Day post. 

Thank you in advance,

Drs. Kardos and Lai   





The definition of happy: Mother’s Day 2013!

 

mother's day cartoonThis Mother’s Day we bring you definitions inspired by our children and our patients. Don’t think we’ll out-hip Urban Dictionary, but we’re moms…. by definition we are not hip. Enjoy your day.

 

Sleep walker: the daytime state of a new mom.

 

Sweater: a garment worn by a child when his mother feels cold.

 

Displacement:  a vacation with toddlers.

 

Sick: something moms are not allowed to become.

 

WOW: MOM upside-down.


Mommometer: a mom’s hand on a feverish forehead.

 

One zillion: number of times a mom says “wash your hands” to her children over the course of their childhoods.

 

Yesterday: when the sports/camp/school field trip form was due.
Today: when the child hands the mom the sports/camp/school field trip form.


Working mother: Every Mom

 

Water torture: a grade-school son’s interpretation of a mom’s announcement of “shower night.”

 

Boomerang: a mom’s realization that her child is acting like she did at the same age.

 

Happy Mother’s Day from your two Pediatrician Moms,

Julie Kardos, MD and Naline Lai, MD

©2013 Two Peds in a Pod®

 




Alcohol and drugs- what to say when your child tells you the truth about college parties


What would you do if your child told you he or she was drinking or using other drugs? Standing with one’s mouth gaping open is probably not the best response. As your child arrives back college, or if he’s about to embark on his first year, take the opportunity to discuss alcohol and drugs. Today, psychologist John Gannon talks about how to approach the subject. —Drs. Lai and Kardos

Okay, it happened. Your child went off to college and now he tells you his college experience is just as bad as yours was. Yes, he is doing well academically. But he is smoking pot and drinking alcohol– it is just about enough to push you over the edge. OMG!


I won’t tell you to relax about this, but remember for the most part, this is a transitional time and not necessarily a life changing scenario. After all, people have gone off to college for 100’s of years and survived. The likelihood that your child will be the exception is not overly high.  Most likely, the actions are unlikely to be life changing and isolated to college. If this scenario occurs and you comment about drug and alcohol use, you will be acting responsibly without necessarily condoning the behavior.

So what is fair to talk about and what is probably too much to talk about? First, if there is any family history for either drug or alcohol abuse, this should be discussed. The family secret needs to be revealed so that your child has a chance to minimize the impact of biology/genetics. Painful as it may be, your child deserves the chance to understand why his situation is somewhat unique and that he is at greater risk for drug and alcohol abuse issues than other students.

Secondly, if there is any family history of depression, anxiety, mood disorder, or other significant mental health issues, this also needs to be revealed. These disorders run in families. The presence of these disorders increases the likelihood a person self medicates with drugs or alcohol in order to combat mental illness.

Next, isolated events do occur. We always hear about them from our friends. We are grateful that the events do not happen to us. Although these events do appear random, your child has the potential to experience one of them. For instance, episodic binge drinking can be epidemic at some colleges. Chances are your child will participate at some point or another.

Did you ever have that talk about alcohol and drugs that you promised yourself you would have with your child before he went to school? Did you explain about mixing substances? Did you explain about how the body metabolizes alcohol? Did you talk about how alcohol and marijuana lower impulsivity and reduce judgment? Did you tell him how proud of him you are and yet you also feel scared? Did you set the stage to have a dialogue versus a lecture from parent to child?

So go on! Have the talk even if your child already started college. Sure you might be met with some eye rolling. Don’t forget, you rolled your eyes at your parents. What goes around comes around. Listen, if your child hears one thing from you that he remembers, that’s a win! With luck, your child’s events are not the ones others are talking about.

John Gannon
Psychologist, Marriage and Family Therapist


Licensed psychologist John Gannon has over 25 years experience as a marriage and family therapist in the Philadelphia area. A father of a young adults, John Gannon has spoken both locally and nationally on family matters. He has addressed numerous teacher and parent groups, given advice on a radio call-in program, and has appeared on The Montel Williams Show.
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Information and tools to help prevent and treat drug and alcohol abuse by teens and young adults  www.drugfree.org

If you are concerned your child is addicted : to find treatment- U.S .Department of Health and Human Services- Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration – Substance Abuse Treatment Facility Locator www.findtreatment.samhsa.gov 1-800-788-2800

Naline Lai, MD and Julie Kardos, MD
©2013 Two Peds in a Pod®
Modified from the original 12/3/2009 post


 




The effects of sugar on children … not so sweet

swimming in sugarToday’s guest blogger, teacher and health coach Mary McDonald, teaches us how to understand the amount of sugar reported on nutrition labels and gives ideas for low sugar snacks —Drs. Lai and Kardos

Can you imagine packing lunch for your child and throwing a cigarette into the bottom of the brown paper bag?  Well, many Americans may not be packing cigarettes in their kids’ lunches, but they are packing something addicting: sugar.  As a family and consumer sciences teacher,  I see what the students eat and their food choices are alarming. 

In the past, my colleagues and our students worked together to bring awareness to drug prevention in a campaign called “Red Ribbon Week.”  This campaign asks individuals to take a stand against drugs and live a drug free life. I now challenge the organizers of Red Ribbon Week to include excess sugar to their list of drugs.  In 2008, Professor Bart Hoebel and his team in the Department of Psychology at Princeton University determined that mice given excess sugar demonstrated three qualities indicative of addiction:  increased intake, withdrawal, and cravings.  The subject of excess sugar has gained a lot of popularity over the past few years.  A recent article in the NY Times, Is Sugar Toxic?” highlights the negative health effects of excessive sugar consumption.

If you don’t trust the reports coming in day after day from physicians and researchers, then test it out at home.  Tell your kids that you are going to skip dessert tonight after dinner.  I can almost hear the blood-curdling screams from here. The image may be funny, but the reality of what we are doing to our children is not.  Excess sugar causes weight gain, obesity, diabetes, heart disease, and many other deleterious conditions.  The President of the American Diabetes Association and a Pediatric Endocrinologist, Dr. Frances Ratner Kaufman, MD, reported in the fall 2012 Clinical Diabetes Journal that diabetes is no longer a disease of our grandparents, but instead it is a disease of our children. Type 2 diabetes is now considered an epidemic in the American pediatric population, up 33% in the past decade alone. Epidemic. If that doesn’t scare you, then think about the fact that our children’s generation is not expected to live as long as our generation.

Okay, enough about the depressing news. What can we do to stop these trends? My advice is something so simple, but not so easy. Turn over each and every label of your food and read the ingredient list and nutrition label. For this activity, focus in on the number of grams of sugar in each product. But what does a gram really represent? Well, here’s an easy conversion:

4.2 grams sugar= 1 teaspoon of sugar

So keep your life simple when you are reading labels and divide the number of grams of sugar by 4 to understand how much sugar you and your children are consuming. Take a look at a bag of Skittles®. Each 2.17 oz bag of original Skittles® contains 44 grams of sugar, or 11 teaspoons of sugar. Instead of reaching for that bag of candy, reach for something equally as sweet that contains far less sugar: an apple!

Here are some suggestions for snacks to substitute for sugar-filled junk food:

Mary McDonald holds a Masters of Education from Arcadia University and a health coach certification from Institute of Integrative Nutrition.  A mom of four daughters, she teaches family and consumer sciences in Central Bucks School District, Pennsylvania.  For more information on her health counseling services, please contact her at nutrition101withmary@gmail.com or visit her website at nutrition101withmary.com.

©2013 Two Peds in a Pod®




Allergy medicine: the quest for the best antihistamine


The antihistamine quandry

 Junior’s nose is starting to twitch
His nose and his eyes are starting to itch.
 As those boogies flow
You ask oh why, oh why can’t he learn to blow? 
 It’s nice to finally see the sun
But the influx of pollen is no fun. 
Up at night, he’s had no rest,
But which antihistamine is the best?

It’s a riddle with a straight forward answer. The best antihistamine, or “allergy medicine” is the one which works best for your child with the fewest side effects. Overall, I don’t find much of a difference between how well one antihistamine works versus another for my patients. However, I do find a big difference in side effects.

Oral antihistamines differ mostly by how long they last, how well they help the itchiness, and their side effect profile.  During an allergic reaction, antihistamines block one of the agents responsible for producing swelling and secretions in your child’s body, called histamine. Prescription antihistamines are not necessarily “stronger.” In fact, at this point there are very few prescription antihistamines. Most of what you see over-the-counter was by prescription only just a few years ago. And unlike some medications, the recommended dosage over-the-counter is the same as what we used to give when we wrote prescriptions for them.

The oldest category, the first generation antihistamines work well at drying up nasal secretions and stopping itchiness but don’t tend to last as long and often make kids very sleepy.  Diphendydramine (brand name Benadryl) is the best known medicine in this category.  It lasts only about six hours and can make people so tired that it is the main ingredient for many over-the-counter adult sleep aids.  Occasionally, kids become “hyper” and are unable to sleep after taking this medicine. Other first generation antihistamines include Brompheniramine (eg. brand names Bromfed and  Dimetapp) and Clemastine (eg.brand name Tavist).

The newer second generation antihistamines cause less sedation and are conveniently dosed only once a day. Loratadine (eg. brand name Alavert, Claritin) is biochemically more removed from diphenhydramine than Cetirizine (eg. brand Zyrtec) and runs a slightly less risk of sleepiness. However, Cetirizine tends to be a better at stopping itchiness.
Now over-the-counter, fexofenadine (eg brand name Allegra) is a third generation antihistamine.  Theoretically, because a third generation antihistamine is chemically the farthest removed from a first generation antihistamine, it causes the least amount of sedation. The jury is still out.

If you find your child’s allergies are breaking through oral antihistamines, discuss adding a different category of oral allergy medication, eye drops or nasal sprays with your pediatrician.
Because of decongestant side effects in children, avoid using an antihistamine and decongestant mix.

Back to our antihistamine poem:
Too many choices, some make kids tired,
While some, paradoxically, make them wired. 
Maybe while watering flowers with a hose,
Just turn the nozzle onto his runny nose. 

Naline Lai, MD with Julie Kardos, MD

©2013 Two Peds in a Pod®

Updated  from the original  post April 10, 2011